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Author: BillTravels Subject: Advice for relationship
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posted on 10-12-2010 at 00:20 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Advice for relationship

When you are angry or deeply hurt, you may blow small problems out of proportion. Just as love sometimes clouds our objectivity, hurt and anger have a similar effect too. You may be tempted to ask a friend or a close relative to interfere or “make the other person see the sense of your argument”, but remember this approach can easily backfire as friends and relatives may not be objective and biased towards you. It’s therefore advisable to seek relationship counseling if both you and your partner are open to the idea. You may feel hesitant about confiding in a stranger, but remember a counselor is not just a stranger but a trained therapist. Just like you go to a doctor to treat an illness, you can visit a relationship counselor to treat your ailing

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posted on 10-12-2010 at 10:05 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Great advice

I think this is fantastic advice in a couple of different ways. First of all, it is very true that involving friends and family in your arguments, whether on one side or as a mediator, is not a good idea. You interact with this person on a very consistent basis and may feel uncomfortable being totally open and honest in the conversation. That person will also feel some pressure when put into the situation since they will know things nobody else does.

Trained professionals are available to help people through tough relationships. Everything in life needs to be taught, yet we continue to think our love life is something we should just "know" how to deal with. Being in a relationship is more than just lovey dovey fun - it's hard work, and it requires sacrifice and self-control. By visiting a counselor or even just a mediator, you will see that even relationships require a bit of guidance and assitance along the way.
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