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You want to meet a nice, educated Russian girl?
Don't waste your money traveling to Russia - there are plenty of nice girls right here in the US. Go to a gentlemen's club in the NYC metro area. These places are full of beautiful girls who are smart enough to get out of the former SU by themselves (or with a little help).
You can talk to them one-on-one.
Learn a little Russian - believe me - it goes a long way.
Hey, I don't need to learn a little Russian, Russian is my native tongue...and I've been to Brooklyn many times when I was single and met a bunch of women from FSU there. They are usually opportunistic scanks, that Russian men living in Brooklyn wouldn't even consider dating! You say they are "smart enough" I say they are gold digger opportunist type women. If you marry one she'll take you for everything you've got... They came to the USA using their opportunistic ways. Some by marrying an American, then dumping him as soon as they got their papers, others found a way to get some very questionable visas by bribing the right people in Russia who have connections with American consulate there...then staying here illegally. Trust me, theese are the type of women you want to stay away from as far as possible!
I've 'run the mills' MANY times in NJ (and continue to do so) and can elaborate first hand on the subject matter. A few, very few of Russian women are both VERY educated and come across exactly as such. Some are educated but really don't socialize or appear as such. Others aren't educated [much]. A few at the bottom of the list are bad, rotten apples. YES MANY of these women are beautiful bomb shells. And that is an understatement.
Look at it like a bell shaped curve, (or 80-20 rule) you want to spend your quality time and money on those few on the far right. Problem is that you will spend a TON of time and money in the sorting out (weeding out) process on the majority in the middle (of the curve). Once you do this and if you still haven't blown your budget totally you'll probably be spending quality time together outside the mills in such places like NYC and elsewhere (i.e. NJ, etc).
The process of running the mill is costly in terms of time and cash. But the process of marrying/divorcing an American woman can be equally or more costly.
I guess maybe less than 10% of these women are great all around, about another 10% ok/so-so, 60% neutral, at least 20% forgetabboutit. Again all factors considered (and I am focusing heavy on character and personality traits versus solely T&A).
And YES learning some basic Russian is a step in the right direction. Helps initiate, sustain, maintain conversation.
The mills are very cut-throat, if you deal a tight deck of cards and not divulge your playbook, you'll do OK once you learn the ropes.
I didn't know that there are Gentlemen Clubs in Brooklyn I think I have to check them out someday. I like Russian women, most of them are really pretty and also polite. There aren't many US girls that can compete with the Russian women I know.
'Hey, I don't need to learn a little Russian, Russian is my native tongue...and I've been to Brooklyn many times when I was single and met a bunch of women from FSU there. They are usually opportunistic scanks, that Russian men living in Brooklyn wouldn't even consider dating! You say they are "smart enough" I say they are gold digger opportunist type women. If you marry one she'll take you for everything you've got... They came to the USA using their opportunistic ways. Some by marrying an American, then dumping him as soon as they got their papers, others found a way to get some very questionable visas by bribing the right people in Russia who have connections with American consulate there...then staying here illegally. Trust me, theese are the type of women you want to stay away from as far as possible!
Russian girls are of different mentality! That's the most objective and important thing to mention first.
I'm not Russian neither Russian speaking. I knew at least 20 of them. They're females/girls. What do you expect from a emigrant (illegal or legal one) whose
' parents are all the way in the other side of the globe? They come here on their 20-ies 20-21-22-23 yrs old. They see the fake smile on the peolple living in this blessed country and they think it's the same like they used to see in TVs back in their countries but unfortunately they get screwed. Then, disappointing and emotionally collapsed they are in some kind of traumatic state without any single help. that's their "beginning" without an end...
Also there are few pimps of the same nationality who grab them and lie them etc etc...
being a girl without any stron support isn't that easy here. Everyone is looking for fish around! They feel free here and that's human nature (not Russian nature only!!!)
You've a large community here in NYC as well as in other States so, based on this, there will be many bad people from your comunity who does not represent all of you.
That mf stalin with his friends all around East Europe f... up the values you and other countries used to have. I've been told from one of my brother's friends who studied in Moscow for diplomacy back in 1980. So guys don't blame on those poor emigrants who're looking for a better life. I've had a lot of experiences with Russian girls. It's hard to make one trust you because they got "disappointed", used brutally and in some cases lied. Back in Russia they may be poor and divorced parents due to the consequences of corruption and bad politics. what do you expect??!!!
I had some bad experiences with so called "gold diggers" but you know who i call gold digger? The one who takes someone's else $$$ and gets for herself not the one who spent partner's money for fun to make the owners of bars and stores wealthier!
So Russian girls are just not mature and smart enough to stop spending while they sleep in floor but dressing the best coats out. and drinking the best drinks every weekend at least. That's a little bit ignorance.
There's something i would advise serious guys; be careful, few or some Russian girls may have trauma and all their gorgeous look will hide your future drama inside. It's not her fault completely but she may have that "gift" for you.
You never know when you meet someone what type of person they are really on the inside. They might be really nice at first, even for months making you think she is going to treat you right...but that can happen in the US too. So it's hard, you really have to learn a lot to keep yoruself self and to know what to look out for.,
Honestly I think the best advice on here so far is to learn the language - if you don't know their language you will aways be at the disadvantage
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