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B.T.D.T
Newbie
Posts: 8
Registered: 01-30-2004 Location:
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posted on 02-01-2004 at 13:32 |
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How would i know if my hymen have been removed???
I've been having oral sex but I knew i was a virgin because i never had any penetration to my virgina by finger, tampon, on otherwise. I never told guys that i was a virgin but they eventually found that out for themselves first hand. They respected my decision and we would satisfy ourselves orally. A few months ago i decided that at age 26 i didn't want to be a virgin anymore so i allow myself to be penetrated. The thing is, even though it was very difficult to get in, there wasn't any blood discharge. On my second and third encounters, it was like losing my virginity all over again. I was still very tight and it was difficult to get in. I never did it again and i don't know if this problem is as a result of my hymen till being in tact. Maybe i have one of those flexible hymens you talked about. Up to this day, i still can't finger myself, or use tampons because i find that any attempt to penetrate myself is very uncomfortable. I don't know what's wrong with me.
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Nessa Freemen
Junior Member
Posts: 11
Registered: 02-25-2004 Location: Phoenix, Az
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posted on 02-27-2004 at 21:06 |
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I think you should try to penatrate yourself a little bit at a time. Eventally you she be able to be comfortable with going further. Not everybody has a hymen or it is so small that it doesn't break. If it is still a problem, I think you should visit a doctor. Becuase you are really missing out.
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B.T.D.T
Newbie
Posts: 8
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posted on 02-29-2004 at 23:24 |
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i've tried penetrating myself but i never get any where with it. It's like im afraid that i may damage myself or something. i've always been afraid to penetrate myself but i eventually found the courage to let a boyfriend do it for me. And it was cool. I mean i was frantic at first, but I enjoyed it. However when it came time for me to try it on my own, i could bearly get it in. It just didn't feel the same to me and all my stupid fears came floading back.
Simply put, im a hopeless case when it comes to fingering myself and getting someone to do it for me is kind of out of the question at this point. I think im still pining over my last sexual encounter, when i discover that 'loverboy' was one of those high risk cases and i had to go get tested for HIV. Thankfully im ok, but the whole experience was horrific and i don't want to go through all that again. So im sitting tight and im being a good girl.
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Nessa Freemen
Junior Member
Posts: 11
Registered: 02-25-2004 Location: Phoenix, Az
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posted on 03-03-2004 at 21:09 |
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So you have had sex before with a man? Then why is it such a big problem now? That good that you got tested. You don't see that very often. So did this person that you had a bad experience with, were you willing or not?
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