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CrisisCore
Newbie
Posts: 1
Registered: 03-14-2010 Location: Germany
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posted on 03-14-2010 at 13:35 |
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can i use artificial hymen in wedding night??
hello my name is Rashida im 19 years old.
since imy family is muslim, i have to follow tradition.. they chose a man for me to marry and they expect me to be a virgin, but i already had sex with a boy a year ago.
i was so stupid.. i dont regret the experience but now i do regret the sex after all because of the marriage.. i really loved him but i realized i cant be together with him...
now im in serious trouble because i need to be a virgin but i am not, i did some research earlier and i have found an artificial hymen on virginia-care.com, i cant afford a hymen reconstruction and it seems like its working and the easiest way for me. but my life will be hell if it doesnt work in wedding night.
i even did some research maybe can u look at the review and tell me what you think or know if anybody used it before
please help me!!!
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moonlite
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Registered: 07-20-2005 Location:
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posted on 03-14-2010 at 17:38 |
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Artificial hymen
You have betrayed your religion by doing the first act. Will you ever be comfortable knowing that you went against their teachings? Will you feel comfortable with your husband knowing that you did not tell of your prior experience? Would you feel better goingto another religion?
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Rainbow
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Registered: 12-09-2009 Location:
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posted on 03-25-2010 at 07:44 |
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As far as I know, the hymen reconstruction surgery is a fairly quick procedure that doesn't even require full anaestetic - and you can (usually) go home within a couple of hours. But that's as much as I know about it...
But I don't understand why you're researching this matter when you say you don't have the money to go through with it...
I'm not quite sure why you want this surgery. You say it's because your family expect you to be a virgin but...how will they know that you're not? Do they want to see blood on your sheets or what? Not that all virgins bleed on their first time but...some people are ignorant about this fact., I guess.
There's a moral aspect to this as well. You will basically be decieving a man into believing you're pure and untouched. Is it really fair of you to cut a man short on what he wants, just because you want to hide your mistakes? It's one thing that you make a mistake, and make it your own. But it's pretty messed up when you use other people, without them knowing, to cover up your mistakes. It's not fair that you make a potential spouse believe that you're a virgin, when you're absolutely not! Be a woman and deal with your bad choices on your own! Do not ruin another person's life!
Being a Muslim myself, I can only advice you to seek forgiveness with God, and pray for His guidance and help.
P.S! Being a virgin myself, and feeling very strongly about virginity, it's very offenssive to me that non-virgin women claim a purity that does not belong to them at all! I hate that!
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cindycrawford
Junior Member
Posts: 10
Registered: 03-25-2010 Location:
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posted on 03-25-2010 at 11:05 |
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Re:
i have no idea about an artificial hymen.
but i was a virgin before marriage still no hymen broke.
i dont even know where did it existed!
but i am sure i never had sex or anything such.
but it did nt make any issue because me and my husband are educated and know that it may break without having sex too such as by cycling, doing physical training or swimming.
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