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Author: dum Subject: Have you ever had feelings for the same sex?
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posted on 04-19-2004 at 16:39 Reply With Quote Report Post to Moderator
Have you ever had feelings for the same sex?

Have you ever had feelings for the same sex?
I've had crushes on pretty girls before,but nothing serious.
I dont think i am a lesbian,just because i think another girl is hot.
Would you agree?
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Maybe, maybe not. Many people fantasize about many things that they do not act on. If you are a woman and you primarily have relationships with men, but think about what it would be like with another woman, you may be bi-curious.
How one defines their sexuality is a very personal thing.
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No, I don't think you're a lesbian if you think another female is beautiful. You seem to be comfortable with your sexuality and there's nothing wrong with admiring the same sex. You're a lesbian if you actually have a physical or emotional relationship with another female. So you're ok.
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I think psychologists believe we are all on a sliding scale, with homosexuality on one end, hetero on the other, and perfect bisexualism right in the middle. They say that everyone is in some unique spot on this continium, and rarely is anyone on any of the exact three points. If you were a lesbian, you would desire relationships beyond friendship with other women, and wouldn't really be attracted to guys (bisexualism being a different thing).
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I tend to think that you're not bisexual or a lesbian unless you can see yourself in the same sort of relationship as you would with someone of the opposite sex. As in,more than just sexual attraction or lust. If you can't,then you're just experimental,I think.
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